YOUR SPOUSE MUST APPRECIATE YOU
Love her .
when she sips on your coffee or tea.
She only wants to make Sure it tastes just right for you.
when she “pushes” you to pray.
She wants to be with you in Jannah (Paradise).
when she asks you to play with the kids.
She did not “make” Them on her own.
when she is jealous. Out of all the men she can have,
she chose you
when she has annoying little habits that drives you nuts.
you have them too.
Love her when her cooking is bad. She tries.
when she looks dis-sheveled in the morning.
She always grooms Herself up again.
when she asks to help with the kids homework.
She only wants
You to be part of the home.
when she asks if she looks fat.
Your opinion counts, so
Tell her she’s beautiful.
when she looks beautiful.
She’s yours so appreciate her.
when she spends hours to get ready.
She only wants to look Her best for you.
when she buys you gifts you don’t like.
Smile and tell her it’s what you’ve always wanted.
when she has developed a bad habit.
You have many more and With wisdom and politeness
you have all the time to help her change.
when she cries for absolutely nothing.
Don’t ask, tell her Its going to be okay.
when she suffers from PMS.
Buy chocolate, rub her feet and
Back and just chat to her.
when whatever you do is not pleasing.
It happens and will Pass
when she stains your clothes.
You needed a new thobe (kurta) anyway
when she tells you how to drive.
She only wants you to be Safe.
when she argues.
She only wants to make things right for Both
she is yours.
You don’t need any other special reason!!!!
All this forms part of a Woman’s Character. Women are part of your
Life and should be treated as the Queen.
The Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) advised concerning the
Woman: treat the women well. The best of you are those who are the
Best in the treatment of their wives.
No one honours the woman
except an honorable man.
And no one Humiliates her or holds her in contempt except one who is evil, vile,
Wicked and depraved.
Don’t wait for that special occasion, take time
Now to make her feel Special in Every Way